It used to be that every new beginning ⁣
was a date with a diet⁣

A diet-date.⁣

It was the day I planned ⁣
to start “being good”⁣

to “get serious about what I ate”⁣

It looked like this:⁣

January 1st – the BIG cultural diet-date⁣
Birthday – diet-date the day after⁣
A wedding – diet-date 2 months prior⁣
Conference – diet-date 2 weeks prior⁣
Family gathering – diet-date 1 month prior⁣


Every new beginning ⁣
An opportunity for ⁣
Food shame⁣
and⁣
Body blame⁣

What if…⁣
(and it can truly be this way)⁣

A new beginning was⁣
A date with deepening⁣

A deepening-date.⁣

The New Year – deepening self-compassion⁣
Birthday – deepening into my desires⁣
A wedding – deepening my love affair with myself⁣
Conference – deepening authenticity⁣
Family gathering – deepening relationship⁣

What if new beginnings ⁣
were not another time to engage ⁣
with cultural messages of ⁣
body-expectations and beauty ideals⁣

What if new beginnings ⁣
were a time to engage ⁣
with ourselves ⁣
not from a place of management⁣
but from a place of tenderness.⁣

~ Nina Manolson⁣
NinaManolson.com