Body-Checking

Body-Checking

BODY-CHECKING   I grew up in Montreal. In the land of hockey   Hockey is aggressive Body-Checking – pushing, shoving, charging and hitting an opponent is part of the experience.   According to the USA hockey rule book The purpose of a body-check is to physically...
I’M SO SORRY, an apology from a health coach

I’M SO SORRY, an apology from a health coach

I’m so sorry… An apology from a Health Coach   I’m sorry I told you what to eat I’m sorry I told you when to eat it I’m sorry that I thought my body-wisdom was your body-wisdom   It’s not.   I studied nutrition for years I passed the big exams I have all the...
PROFITING ON THE SHAME OF WOMEN

PROFITING ON THE SHAME OF WOMEN

PROFITING ON THE SHAME OF WOMEN It was a group of women So supportive So uplifting Cheering each other on in our lives and our work And then she stood to introduce her amazing self And the shame attack started It started subtly with a friendly announcement of a new...
Holiday Eating Advice

Holiday Eating Advice

Eating advice for the holidays (and every day) What if instead of following the rules Or feeling bad for not following the rules   Or feeling obligated to eat Aunt Trina’s pie Or feeling like you shouldn’t have seconds   What if instead of feeling tight...
Please don’t weigh me

Please don’t weigh me

Please don’t weigh me.   She asked me to hop on the scale I said no thank you.   She said: We’d like to get a baseline for your health since you’re a new patient. I said: I don’t subscribe to the belief that weight determines health There are more powerful...
I’ve tried everything

I’ve tried everything

I’VE TRIED EVERYTHING I asked her: what have you done already?   What have you done to feel good in your skin? to end the battle with your body, to stop the tug-o-war with your food ? to stop obsessing over your weight?   She said:   Everything...