SUMMER SHAME

It creeps up with talk of bikini bodies

It shows up with moms hiding behind kids in the vacation pics

It stays invisible but deeply felt in the resistance of “I don’t want go to the beach or that pool party, with everyone in their bathing suits.”

Body-shame gets loud in the summer

It shouts – you’re body should be different!

It should look like that image – that image of perfection emblazoned in your psyche.

For me it was…

  • no stretch marks

  • no belly

  • no hair

  • no jiggle

Which meant…

  • no me

  • no pleasure

  • no freedom

  • no body ease

Yet there’s an antidote to Summer Shame

It’s not a new you

not a new body

not the last 5-10-15 lbs

It’s summer feeling

Naming your body-image wounding and shame

It’s summer healing

Choosing to heal instead of looking for the next way to fix yourself

It’s summer outrage  

Speaking out against the rules and limitations you put on your body

It’s summer compassion

Creating gentleness and connection with your body

It’s letting the

warm air,

the gentle breeze,

the water’s edge

soften the conversation you have with yourself.

Please,

make space to breath fully,

flow,

and live in your body with ease.

You deserve summer freedom.

~ Nina Manolson, 

Body-Peace® Founder & Coach

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