I’m so sorry…
An apology from a Health Coach
I’m sorry I told you what to eat
I’m sorry I told you when to eat it
I’m sorry that I thought my body-wisdom
was your body-wisdom
It’s not.
I studied nutrition for years
I passed the big exams
I have all the right letters behind my name
to give me the credibility to tell you what’s “healthy” to eat.
But I can tell you,
I was misguided.
I thought the INFO was the answer
It’s not.
Your knowing
Your hunger
Your desire
Your needs
Your body-story
Is the answer.
I’ve come back to my roots
I started my work with women 28 years ago,
helping them to feel safe in their bodies…
Helping them find words to go with their internal experience
Helping them bring their sacred body-story into the light.
I started with my hands on women’s bodies,
I was a bodyworker
I hate that word: body-worker.
I didn’t work ON bodies.
I worked WITH bodies
I work WITH women
I made space for their magnificence
For their release
I made a space for it to be safe to be in a body.
And now, 28 years later.
With plenty of letters that show my knowing,
my experience and my devotion,
Again, I am making space for women to be in a safe,
caring, loving, compassionate, responsive
and respectful relationship with their own bodies.
I won’t tell you what to eat.
I won’t assume that what feels good for my body
will do the same for you.
But I will support you in finding a way to nourish yourself
in ways that include
but go well beyond what you put on your fork.
I’m sorry if I ever made you feel like there was
a “right” away to eat
Or a “right” way to treat your body
Are there ways that will make you feel more alive?
Is there a path to feeling more at ease
and at home in your body?
YES, for sure.
But it must be YOUR way
YOUR unique, nourished path
And just in case it makes you nervous
‘cause you don’t know “your way” to feeling nourished?
Don’t worry.
It’s very possible you never learned it,
Most of us didn’t.
We learned how to care for everyone else
One thing I’ve learned is that we as women
need support and community
to find our own way home to peace in our bodies.
Nina Manolson, M.A. in Counseling Psychology, Nationally Board Certified Health & Wellness Coach, Psychology of Eating Coach, Body-Trust® Guide.
If you’d like help with navigating an authentic and respectful relationship with your body. Let’s talk.
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Nina Manolson, MA, NBC-HWC, board certified Health Coach, Psychology of Eating Coach and Certified Body-Trust Provider, believes that every woman deserves to feel good in her own body.
She helps women create a healthy and positive relationship with their food and body so they can love their body and life! She’s the founder of NinaManolson.com and The Nourished Woman Nation.
She helps busy women feel good in their own body.. She specializes in working with women over 40 who have tried other diets and approaches but are still struggling with their body and food.
She’s the creator of the BODY-LOVE MAP and the recipient of the prestigious Health Leadership Award from the Institute for Integrative Nutrition.
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Nina Manolson, MA, is the founder of Body-Peace®.She helps women end the war with food and body and finally feel truly at home in their body—as it is.
She is known for her deeply feminist, anti-diet, body-peace® approach. She brings her 30 years of experience as a therapist, Body-Trust® Guide and Psychology of Eating Teacher to helping women create a respectful and trusting relationship with their food and body.
Nina’s Body-Peace® work is all in service of helping people get off the diet roller-coaster, and into a compassionate and powerful way of eating & living which creates a positive long-lasting change in and with their bodies. Her courses, coaching, poems and Body-Peace APP positively change the conversation that women are having with their body.
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